Before You 'Slap' Your Wife ...

Remember that, she's daughter and sister of someone the same way you have sister and daughter married to someone else.

2. Have you met all her obligations eg feeding, clothing, decent accommodation (within your means) as enshrined by the Holy Qur'an and the sunnah of the Prophet (SAW)?

3. Have you sincerely and tirelessly cater for your children's need according to your means eg clothing, school, etc.?

4. Is your character such that your wife and children are proud to call you husband and father respectively?

5. Have you ever gave your wife and children the best of moral counselling they deserve?

6. Have you ever, even for once, help your wife in terms of education (Islamic and western), business or work to realise her potentials to become a better, empowered wife and committed mother?

7. Have you ever sat her down and discuss over some of her attitude you are not comfortable with?

8. Assuming you talked to her and she didn't change, have you ever reported her to any of her relatives or parents and there was no action taken?

9. The same reason and urge that drive you to slap her, are you also not guilty from the same attitudes?

10. As a brother or father, will you stand to watch "her husband" raised his hands and slap her thereby maltreating her psychologically and physically?

My brother, don't let your emotions to becloud your sense of reasoning. Never let hot temper spoil a relationship you fought hard to establish. Never, commit yourself into something that you will regret for life. Never hurt a heart that stand as the mother of your children.

In case she does something wrong, there are many simple and logical ways of solving the fracas without recourse to "slap" or divorce. It's a challenge before every mam to exhibit high sense of maturity in handling any issue that may likely arise.

Allah ya bamu ikon gyarawa, su kuma mata suji tsoron Allah.

AURE YA WUCE WASA.

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